Affection Is a Cultural Shift, Not Just a Movement

When we talk about affection, it’s easy to think small: a smile, a gesture, a word of kindness. But affection, when we expand it beyond the personal, is nothing less than a cultural shift. It’s not just about being nice; it’s about re-wiring how we live, work, lead, and grow.

The Affection Economy began as a way to describe what happens when we put people at the centre of our decisions. But the more I’ve worked with organisations, leaders, and communities, the clearer it’s become: affection is not a side project. It’s a turning point in culture.

For too long, we’ve measured success through status and consumption.
Bigger houses, bigger titles, bigger numbers.
But we are living through an era where that story is unravelling.
People don’t just want more.

They want meaning.
They want connection.
They want to belong.

Affection gives us the language for this shift.
It asks us to stop seeing empathy as a corporate buzzword and instead embrace compassion—action that changes how we relate, decide, and include.

It shows us that kindness isn’t weakness, it’s radical strength.
It reminds us that love, in all its courageous and resilient forms, is the most underutilised currency in business and leadership today.

And here’s the truth: culture is made of stories.
The stories we tell about success.
The stories we tell about who belongs.
The stories we tell about what matters.

If those stories are built on extraction, endless craving, or competition at all costs, then culture hardens around them.
But if those stories are shaped by affection, by the willingness to see one another, to listen, to act with care, then culture softens, expands, and transforms.

Story-making is at the heart of this.

Every day, whether in boardrooms or around kitchen tables, we are making stories about what matters.
We pass them on in the language we use.
In the policies we write.
In the way we treat our colleagues.
In the way we raise our children.

Each act of affection is a story in motion, proof that another economy, another way of living, is possible.

So when I talk about the Affection Economy, I’m not inviting people into a movement with a beginning and an end.
I’m naming a cultural shift that is already happening all around us.
From leaders re-centring people over profit.
To communities rebuilding trust through care.
To individuals reclaiming their values and living aligned.

Affection is here. It’s the work of our times.
The question is: what story will you make with it?

If this resonates, and you’d like to explore how affection in action can reshape your leadership, your team, or your own life, let’s start a conversation.

Author’s Note:
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